Do you think that you are a good lover? I am confident that the majority of people would have answered this question with a big fat yes but in reality are not that sure. So how do you become a good lover?

A good lover is somebody who is very caring, are aware of their lovers needs and are not just thinking about their own pleasure. They will go that extra step to ensure that their partner is fully satisfied even if this means that they are participating in something that they do not really want to and that they might not even enjoy.

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A good lover will not pressure their partner into doing something that they do want to. For example a man will often request that their girlfriend/partner swallows when giving oral sex. The woman in question may find this repulsive and in this situation it would be unfair to attempt to make her. A lot of men will say something like, if you loved me you would. Just a quick tip for the men out there, this will lead to a lot of resentment in the future therefore give it up.

A good lover will make the whole experience of making love into a romantic one, roses on the bed, candles and champagne etc. These extra measures can lead to extra pleasures!

A good lover will at times tease their partner by moving in a slow manner however at other times will become dominant and quick.

Having sex in unusual places rather than just in the bedroom can also prove to be exciting and different. A good lover will always be seeking to make their sex life exciting in this way.

As well as different locations a good lover will like to try out many different sexual positions to ensure that sex does not become boring.

In conclusion, variety is the key to sexual satisfaction for you and your lover.